Bink/ Breisis/ Allie's Dream FINALLY Comes True!

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Bink aka Briesis aka Allie is now a MODERATOR on Lisa Scott's site...

since Lisa realized the Subconscious Restructing SCAM was exposed she's moving on to a site where she can capitalize on Magical Thinking and MINIMIZE their time with toxic Narcissists into 'just a bad relationship.' Lisa was told but she's so childish she actually thinks she's hurting myself & Barbara by making Kim a moderator... LOL!!!

Lisa will be offering ONLINE DATING soon!!.. good going bitches!!

...and Bink/ Briesis/ Allie will be there to help oversee it all...

...by the way -- GooseMama abandoned Out of the Fog... probably for the best since they were warned... apparently they CHECK PEOPLE OUT and Kim would never have been made a moderator there!!... lol

BEST OF LUCK

Welcome Back, You Psychopath Bitch!

I left her alone for months - no posts - told her to leave me alone but she just can't stop STALKING!!!

http://www.lisaescott.com
Thank you Lisa
Wed, 06/16/2010 - 07:14 — Allie

for letting me back on the board :) After I defended you against NarcNarc's venom last week, Barbara took it upon herself within an hour to promptly delete my account. I was patient, knowing she would eventually self destruct...the bitter ones always do. Wow, it didn't take long. Makes me wonder just how many times she deleted members who didn't agree with her or simply just p*ssed her off that day, lol. It would be exhausting being that bitter. It smacks of Barbara when members post in her defense. Pseudonyms? Though I agree with one thing, she did provide good links and articles written by others, everything else said in her defense is rubbish...supportive? tough love? Barbara was the most hateful person I've ever come across, and I'm including my 2 past narcs! If your idea of "support" is WAKE UP AND ANSWER THE CLUE PHONE! among all her other words of wisdom, maybe she'll make a forum just for you...you can be called the "Bitter Bunch". You're entitled to miss her, you're also entitled to go find her. I am glad she's gone, and as for the suggestion that Jessika be the new moderator, I didn't know whether to crack up or gag at that post. She hides it behind her "I'm a psychologist" crap, but she is almost as nasty as Barbara. Definitely not operating from a place of light which is what we NEED on this forum! Let in the light!

Barbara's been GONE for days you twat and I left a couple days ago... No one deleted your account... no one banned you... Barbara's in possession of a validated email from Lisa's old webmaster showing there were only FOUR bannings and not ONE of them was you or that other wackjob - Carolyn. LISA LIED ABOUT BARBARA IN NUMEROUS WAYS TO MAKE HERSELF LOOK LIKE A VICTIM!!! just like you... bitch -- sound familiar???

Couldn't be something you did or some web glitch... you're so fucking paranoid and delusional it HAD to be on purpose!!.... And Jessika IS a licensed psychologist you stupid cunt... you're just a wanna be nobody and professional stalker!

Lisa needs a psychopath like you around... she's never ever dealt with a real one - hopefully you can teach her a thing or two.... Or maybe her Life Coaching scheme will help you get over being a PSYCHO STALKER. Has she offered you FREE help???

Maybe you and Lisa can hook up and trade tips about fleecing money from board members... how much did you fleece the Catbox members for again, Kimmy?

BINKSTINK IS A CRYBABY... BOOOOO HOOOOO

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Is it so wrong to expect people to treat you as you've treated them?

-BinkStink

oh my... how sad... BinkStink has rewritten history... she's hidden all her nasty posts... and yet i, horrid horrible person that i am... i have neither forgotten or forgiven!!. .woe is BinkStink... read her latest pity party (my invective in TURQUOISE)

Is it so wrong to expect people to treat you as you've treated them?(NOPE...not at all, especially when you've treated them like shit) Well, yes. (the pity party is getting OLD, Narc )

Because it's hopeless.You can't make another person behave in a manner that you think is appropriate unless you can beat them, shame them or terrify them into compliance. (yep.. you tried all that, huh BinkStink) Or, unless they already have the faculty of loving you and wanting to please you. If they do not, then you are back to coercion by force.

I don't think there is any escape from "do unto others as you would have them do unto you". It's just that you can't MAKE them do unto you in a specific way, no matter how much good you do unto them.SHOULD they? (poooooor BinkStink... what a martyred saint...)

This thought is, "I want you to X, therefore, you should." The wanter is the sun around which the planets of other people revolve. (NARC NARC) Not real flattering. (NOPE BinkStink... not flattering)

Wanting other people, no DEMANDING they treat you decently is entitlement.But then . . . but then . . . it's still not RIGHT that I was treated poorly, was it? (who is she talking about?... who treated this bitch POORLY?.. oh yeah.. everybody in the world, because she's a NARC)No, it wasn't RIGHT.But then . . . but then . . . I should do something about it!!Yes indeed, but what? Do what?Here's the rub. We get stuck believing that the problem is with the other person who is treating us badly.

I mean, it seems so obvious. But it's a misperception of solution. And a brick wall, besides, one I've beat my head against forever.Yes, do something. Do something you CAN do.Like . . . walk away. Leave.(lie.. rewrite histoy... play the victim) Accept the other person exactly as they are, give them that much respect and credit. It's against no law for a person to be an ass, a jerk, or a bitch. See yourself as you are, unable to reach in and mess with their motherboard. So what CAN you do?What I do is take myself away. (translates to 'run away and reinvent myself') I avoid people who treat me like shit. (tranlates to 'i avoid people who are onto me' )It's very natural, even paramecia do it.

I can imagine only extreme situations where I would confront a person and TELL them to treat me better. The rest of the time, I don't need them to treat me one way or another. They don't define me. They can't get inside me all that easily (anymore). Whatever, dude. Knock yourself out. Go in peace, asshole.I spend just as much time as I ever did noticing people who act like barbarians, but much LESS time searching and obsessing about what to do about it.

well, shucks... she still sounds a little bummed out... i hope it wasn't Sam's opinion of her... of her personality disorders... i mean after all... she diagnosed herself... not intending to of course... in her little pity party entitled MEAN PEOPLE SUCK... she said this.. lobbing it at me....

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From what I know about personality disorders, a person WITH one is a person with a hazy, indistinct sense of self. It is easily threatened, and viciously defended. An insult is life or death. They are both grandiose and so insignificant to themselves. When we are talking ideas and honesty and integrity, which are much higher on the food chain than they can grasp, they are struggling, like a 13 year old terror of a kid, for a simple sense of SELF. The sense they do have is so fragile a breeze would dislodge it. It really is life and death, to them.I can better understand "mean people" from this point of view.

BinkStink is throwing herself quite the PITY PARTY...but looks like no one came.....

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How can I tell whom not to trust?" ...the best clue is, of all things, the pity play. The most reliable sign, the most universal behavior of unscrupulous people is not directed, as one might imagine, at our fearfulness. It is, perversely, an appeal to our sympathy...More than admiration--more even than fear--pity from good people is carte blanche. When we pity, we are, at least for the moment, defenseless...You know this is true. How many times in the movies has this tactic been used by the evil villain? Innumerable. We are screaming at our TV screens, "Don't fall for that!!" as we see the camouflaged evil villain lure in the good guy by appealing to the good guy's intact heart and conscience with a convincing act of being wounded, pitiable, defenseless. If the good guy believes the act, he is the one rendered defenseless. This allows the bad guy to kill him or make an escape. This scene happens over and over again in movies because we all recognize it to be a common tactic of evil people, and we all recognize the good guy's vulnerability to such a tactic. His decency is what sets him up for the fall. We find ourselves wishing that the good guy could be just a little less decent for a moment so he can avoid what we can see is coming...his annihilation.Do we have to lose our decency to insure we don't fall for such a ruse? No, I don't think so. We just need to pay attention. Don't assume that anyone who seems pathetic and pitiable is automatically going to deserve your compassion or pity. Remember that giving sympathy to evil doers is no virtue. If you want your compassion to be virtuous be sure to give it to the truly deserving.Stout gives us some guidance on how to decide who is trustworthy and who is deserving of your compassion:"When deciding whom to trust, bear in mind that the combination of consistently bad or egregiously inadequate behavior with frequent plays for your pity is as close to a warning mark on a conscienceless person's forehead as you will ever be given."

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"I am sure that if the devil existed, he would want us to feel very sorry for him."

-The Sociopath Next Door, pg. 109.

The devil does exist. Boot his or her sorry ass out of your life.

http://narcissists-suck.blogspot.com/2008/01/pity-party.html

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BOOOOOO HOOOOOO BinkStink... cry me a river of crocodile tears... i'm not buying it... and looks like no one else is either...

NICE TRY, BINKSTINK!

In her latest post, BinkStink tried this exact tactic... nice try... not buying your "poor little ole me" bullshit!

A COMMON TACTIC OF NARCISSISTS
by Anna Valerious

Manipulators. We've all been taken in by them. All malignant narcissists are manipulators, though not all manipulators are narcissists. Either way, it is impossible to avoid them. It is possible to minimize our susceptibility to them.

The concept that has helped me the most in enabling me to recognize when someone is trying to force me into what they want from me is the reality that manipulators are aggressive, and most times they are able to hide their aggression. George K. Simon, Jr., Ph.D. of "In Sheep's Clothing" calls them "covert-aggressives". As I read his book I realized that my whole experience with my sister especially, but also my mother, was that of being up against a covertly-aggressive person. My sister is better at it than my mother is. Interestingly enough.

Simon makes a great case for opening our eyes to what is really happening in these interactions; that the character disordered individual, or simply aggressive person, is fighting to get their own way when they use certain tactics. And he points out that they are tactics. Not defensive reactions.

"...viewing someone who's in the act of aggressing as being defensive in any sense is a major set-up for victimization." pg. 95

He also describes the tactics of the covert-aggressive as being another form of lying.

One of the first things their tactics accomplish for them is to conceal the fact that they are fighting with you. They are refusing to allow you to have the opinion you have, the standards you have, the decision you've made. They are attempting to force your surrender to their way, their opinion, their standards (or lack thereof). But the first thing they must do is come at you in such a way that the first thing you'll think is that they are reacting defensively. They hide their aggressiveness under a cloak of pretense that they are simply acting out of defensiveness which, of course, means that you attacked them. So the next thing their tactics accomplish is putting you on the defensive. Now you are knocked off-balance and the covert-aggressive will likely start throwing so many different manipulative tactics at you at once that you end up falling for the ruse and capitulate.

Simon states that it is impossible to list all the tactics manipulators use, but he does make a short list of the most popular ones. He starts with "minimization". It is a 'oh my god' moment to see it spelled out. How many, many times have my mother or sister used this tactic on me and others?? It could not be counted.

Simon again contrasts the behavior of the neurotic with that of the character disordered as he explains this tactic:

"...the aggressor is attempting to assert that his behavior isn't really as harmful or irresponsible as someone else may be claiming. It's the aggressor's attempt to make a molehill out of a mountain... Neurotics frequently make mountains out of molehills, or 'catastrophize.' The disturbed character frequently trivializes the nature of his wrongdoing. Manipulators do this to make a person who might confront them feel they've been overly harsh in their criticism or unjust in their appraisal of a situation."

Then the money quote, in my opinion:

"Minimization is not primarily the way they make themselves feel better about what they did, it's primarily the way they try to manipulate my impression of them. They don't want me to see them as a person who behaves like a thug. Because they are most often comfortable with their aggressive personality style, they also want me to believe that there's nothing wrong with the kind of person they are." pg. 97

Can you see the lie that is the fabric of this type of manipulation? If you miss the lie, you can be convinced by the manipulator that you are the one aggressing against them. You are the one who is misapprehending the truth of what happened, the truth of what they are. You big meanie. Look at poor little defensive me trying to stand up against your mean and nasty aggression against me! I was only... fill in the blank... as they cut that mountain down to the size of a zit. You back down because suddenly they are the victim and you are hurting them. You fall for the wounded wing act. The one who was truly fighting for their own way is pretending that you are the one who picked the fight, who is being unfair, who needs to admit you are wrong!

I so loathe this sneaky way of lying to get ones way.

I had read this book some months before my last interaction with my sister. I had forgotten about the book, but some of the concepts I had learned were operational for me. My sister's aggression was immediately obvious to me. I did not allow her to minimize the mountain. I didn't believe the covert lie that by my having a certain opinion that I had put her on the defensive. I again highly recommend this little book. It can save your sanity when you're suddenly in a "fight" with a sneaky little lying f-ing manipulator.

http://narcissists-suck.blogspot.com

BINKSTINK IS A GUN TOTING PSYCHO!!!

C

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HAPPINESS IS A WARM GUN, BANG BANG SHOOT SHOOT - The Beatles

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BinkStink is a paragon of PROJECTION... she just loves to accuse others of what she is doing and thinking... in a recent diatribe she sent to someone she called me a 'crazy killer'... and yet it's BinkStink who almost continually talks about guns, and using them... NOT ME... it's BinkStink who, on the Catbox posted time and again about owning guns... and her plans to use to them to shoot the allegedly nefarious ATM... it's BinkStink whose posts really are full of violence and threats of violence... BinkStink calls me a violent killer... it's very typical of Narcs and Psychopaths to turn around their own THOUGHTS and PROCLIVITIES and project them onto others... as we will see here in a small sampling of quotes from BinkStink herself...

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http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?s=b5cb63833fdb369b24292f41ba2292de&showtopic=44740&st=0&p=517882&#entry517882

Posted 10 October 2007 - 04:19 PM

Needless to say I did my business at the mini market, turned around and sped four miles back home, shaking. I sound so tough, you know, but I'm not. I go for weeks without hearing a word or even seeing him, which is amazing since there are less than 400 people in this hamlet. But when I do see him, even for a nanosecond, all I want to do is speed home, lock all the doors and windows and gates, make sure my pistol has a bullet in the chamber and LIE LOW.

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http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=45804&st=40

Posted 09 November 2007 - 11:45 PM

Yes I know how to use the gun, it's a 9mm Walther. I like heck don't want to use it but I will. He taught me how, guns are one of his passions. .

My greatest hope . . . this sounds terrible, but it's true . . . is that he'll go to prison or end up dead.

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http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=43356

Posted 28 August 2007 - 03:28 AM

I threw a teflon pan at him and gashed his leg, I don't think "cute" fits too well. I was just as crazy as he was by the time the inevitable happened.

I know this sounds dramatic but I am SO ANGRY with myself. I'm plenty angry with the Doof and will take out his leg if he sets foot on this property.

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http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=78838

Posted 17 July 2009 - 03:25 AM

when we victims of DV wait "too long" to end the cycle and save ourselves, some funny things happen in our heads. For instance, murder is justified, and worth the consequences. I know I had the thought cross my mind. I saw no other way out

I can especially relate to that anger, and to having accesible firearms and knowing how to use them and getting SO absolutely beyond desperate that it seemed like my only option to save myself.

so he pointed a gun at her first? THEN she blew him away?Hmmmm.
Sounds good to me.

hmmmmmmmmmmm indeed, BinkStink!!!

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http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=78812

Posted 14 July 2009 - 01:01 PM

I also had a drug addicted abuser, who threatened over and over to bash my skull in. He was doing meth. I got a restraining order and sat in my house for nine months with a loaded 9mm pistol.

ATM doesn't know where I am. It felt strange not to have that gun with me at first, but it didn't take long to realize I didn't NEED it, and that I was finally free. ( she's still got it...and talks about wanting to USE it on her blog...keep reading)

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http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=79507&st=10

Posted 23 September 2009 - 04:28 PM

I agree it's disturbing to hear someone use the word "kill" but let's be honest here. How many of us have thought about "the burning bed", hmmmm?? The despair of living with a disturbed person has that effect. Lot's of members here have felt such despair that suicide seems to be a relief. I OFTEN visualized ATM completely out of my hair, if you know what I mean.

I often say that I was afraid something terrible would happen if I hadn't split with my abuser. I didn't just mean something bad would happen to ME. The rage was at a breaking point.

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http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=54575&st=40

Posted 23 August 2008 - 02:24 PM

My war stories aren't funny. Maybe not YET. I did mess with ATM sometimes, but mostly I get off on more direct "assaults", like throwing saucepans.

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http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=51698&st=60

Posted 05 May 2008 - 03:00 PM

I carry spiders outside in jars (shivering and skeeving the whole time) but I believed I could take pot shots at ATM with my pistol if I felt the dire necessity.

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http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=78063&st=10

Posted 03 May 2009 - 05:18 PM

I really didn't DO anything about it. Except notify the sherriff when he broke the RO. He only broke it about three times. Sometimes I think the only reason he didn't harrass me further -- he is very very obsessive -- is because he taught me how to shoot and I was packing

I got an image of the scene in the first Indiana Jones movie where this guy squares off with Indiana Jones with a scimitar, and Jones makes a face and blows him away. His hands are deadly weapons my butt! Can they stop a .44 :p :lol:?

looks like BinkStink herself is quite the gun nut as well as being just a NUT...

and she's still talking about guns... and KILLING PEOPLE WITH THEM... on her

creepy little blog...

http://bink-think.livejournal.com/10503.html

I comfort myself with being the equivalent of a barbed bone in the throat of abusive jerks nowadays, but eventually, I think the goal is to avoid getting inside their mouth. To see the teeth coming, and in the great example of Hothead Paison, Homicidal Lesbian Terrorist, stick the barrel of my Walther in there instead.

uh huh... i see... .BinkStink has certainly shown herself to be abusive... and i've shown clear evidence here of her ummmmmm extreme interest in GUNS... BinkStink armed only with her poor mental health and her rabid tongue is scary enough... but BinkStink with loaded weapons is a very scary thought...and i think even she knows it... let me again quote her.....

http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=45508&st=10

Posted 30 October 2007 - 03:04 PM

I was instrumental in getting my ex arrested. As desperate as I was to even do this, I still felt like you do, frickin SORRY that it even had to come to this. It was a pretty horrible feeling . . even though I was so wanting him just gone.They arrest these gun nut/abuser types for a dam good reason, and I'm so glad you have these people on your side. Bink

yeah BinkStink... they watch and arrest you gun nut/ abuser types for a good reason... a very good reason... because it's your type BinkStink, who is truly 'DANGEROUS'...

UH OH, BINKSTINK!..THE TRUTH REALLY IS OUT THERE!!!

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the truth really is out there... if you just look for it... i looked for it... and i found it... firstly... before anyone starts wagging their psychopath tongue and pointing their psychopath finger... i want to post this reminder...

bink_think
2010-02-17 06:41 am (UTC)
Confederaterebel! Mary Ella McGrannahan. I know you even when you leave out your ellipses.

as everyone can see... the creepy psychopath BinkStink had no problem with posting MY name on HER blog on 2/17/2010...

BinkStink crowed all over her blog that i could not report her to the nursing board... because i couldn't possibly have HER name.. and couldn't possibly get it... she has since removed those posts... along with the one in which she gleefully claimed my father was supposedly a KKK member... but i still have the post and code copied... and in her MEAN PEOPLE SUCK whine-a-thon, she alludes to what she said...

I know it is revenge for suggesting her father was a grand poohbah KKK even though that's probably true.
Finding her father after refusing to believe her sob story, and eventually banning her for endless name-calling twaddle was tantamount in her mind to justify fucking with my sole means of support.

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nasty BinkStink also felt it was perfectly OK for her post hateful spews like this to me...

2010-01-03 09:30 pm (UTC) .Are you flea infested?Are you running with red open sores from the vermin munching on your ankles?Do your dogs gasp and lay quietly on the ends of their chains, fur matted and eyes dim from starvation and worms?Does your hovel stink from the scarce kitty litter?Or are they shitting up the poor man's yard where you keep your hovel?Do you scoop it up out of some rare impulse to actually be grateful?If you do, where do you PUT the POO?In his garbage can?Or do you dry it and burn it for heat?-bink

i've always had a bit of a problem believing BinkStink's sob story... always... even back on the Catbox...it didn't add up...

if she had a house on 20 acres in Idaho... bought and paid for with the proceeds from a house she owned outright in California... then why was BinkStink soooooo broke she had to CON her fellow Catboxers out of money, as i pointed out in a previous post??... why didn't she just borrow money against the house and 20 acres... IF it was hers????...

then there was the claim that she was sitting there, scared to death of ATM... that she'd 'told the cops everything'... in exchange for an RO... didn't ring true... and tell them WHAT, exactly?... what could she tell them they didn't already know?...

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Psychopaths are often pathological liars... and they can often not remember a lie they told ten minutes ago, let alone things they said several years ago... and they seldom put their lies in print... but BinkStink... with her 5000 plus Narc posts on the Catbox... put LOTS OF LIES IN PRINT... LOTS...

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and she's also lied recently, of course... in print... here is an excerpt from her blog entry titled HOPE...

March 15, 2010

I was confronted with this choice myself. My ex husband ATM burned through my entire retirement fund and the proceeds from my house sale in California (which was considerable, I sold in in 2005). I was financially destroyed, and have forever lost ground because of it. He sicced his dogs on my animals and injured or killed them. He shot a laying hen with a RIFLE at point blank range because he wanted roast chicken. It blew her to smithereens. I was screaming at him to stop. The neighbors called the cops because they thought I was being killed, what with the rifle shots and all. He threatened to kill me uncountable times. And even today people, family included, do not GET IT, they continue to ask why I put up with it and did not

"leave sooner".

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Psychopaths forget the lies they've told... she's forgotten the lies she has previously told... above she says ... 'he threatened to kill me uncountable times'... .but here in a post from the Catbox....

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http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=57418

Posted 22 October 2008 - 09:00 PM
My ex abuser ATM was a threatener. He laid hands on me only a few times. Mostly he just threatened to hurt me, and a couple of times, when drunk and furious, to kill me.

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which is it??... uncountable times???... or a couple of times???? Psychopaths continually rewrite history and lie-on-the-fly... and you can see it BinkStink rewriting it... right here... for maximum effect... in the post dated March 15, 2010... she calls ATM her ex-husband... but in posts on the Catbox... she told a different story...

http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=65850

We were never married ((((running out of the room to vomit in shame, excuse me, will I ever not want to barf when I tell this story :X ))))

and then there's this one...........

http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=65850&st=0

Posted 05 November 2008 - 10:23 PM

the judge PROMISED no more continuances after the trial date set in March. Sometimes I wonder if not having married him will be more of a life saver than I ever thought. In the context of the relationship, he refused to marry me. He would have had to divorce his first wife and pay child support (that was his reasoning). Pardon me while I puke from shame again :X .

not only does she say on the Catbox that they were 'never married'... he couldn't possibly be her 'ex husband'... because she claimed previously that he was still married to someone else!!!!!!

http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=75956

Posted 21 November 2008 - 01:54 PM
No one ever proposed to me. ATM just told me he knew he was "screwed" (his term for hopelessly in love with me) and moved right along into calling me his wife. We'd been dating for several weeks, perhaps eight. Probably less. Trouble was, he was still married to his first wife, who fled back to Japan seven years prior and refused to come back to the states (now I know why). He made two half hearted attempts to divorce her.

hmmmmmmm... but by 2009 BinkStink had rewritten history again...

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http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=78511

ATM has an ex, in Japan

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it's soooo hard to keep up with a Psychopath's lies!!. even when they're in print... geeez... and then there is the matter of ATM... and the alleged RESTRAINING ORDER she has against him...

http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=78792

Posted 10 July 2009 - 01:24

ATM made many, many attempts to get this and that from the house. My lawyer had put a stop to taking any of the marital (WAIT A MINUTE!!..in other posts she states CLEARLY that they WERE NEVER MARRIED!) assets. Didn't stop ATM from trying. Since I had a RO, he couldn't approach me without a sheriff being present. And the sheriffs had a copy of the decree from the lawyer so they wouldn't cooperate

http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=48368

Posted 20 January 2008 - 03:29 PM
ATM is grandiose and entitled and he thinks he is above the "law", and once I kicked him out went nuts trying to break the RO to get next to me.

http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=54741&mode=linearplus

Posted 23 August 2008 - 09:49 AM
I allowed my year long RO to lapse in July . . . ATM doesn't know where I live, and his attention span is so short I doubt he would successfully find me. It was a "civil restraining order", not a domestic protection order, so he was allowed to keep his firearms

then there is the matter of ATM supposedly being in prison...

http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=65850

Posted 05 November 2008 - 06:59 PM
That absolute farthead, who is in prison and will be for at least another year, is fomenting again

BinkStink checks her blog! AGAIN!

wait a minute!!!. in november of '08 he's in PRISON.. and will be for 'at least another year'... but in August of '08 her RO expired and she doesn't think he can find her anyway... wait... i thought he was in prison!!.

it's so hard to keep up with the LIES... let's try again...

http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=78180&st=40

Posted 15 May 2009 - 01:05 PM

I haven't seen his face or had any contact with him for two years, and he is safely incarcerated in prison due to his drug addiction but mostly stupidity and believing he is above the law. I've had time to heal a bit and see objectively what kind of situation I was in while I was with him (he is not in prison.....and he is VERY CLOSE TO WHERE SHE LIVES.. i'm sure she knows this)

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there's a bit of a problem with all of this... i searched Idaho court records... that

go back to 1995... and... there is no evidence that there was EVER a restraining order !!.. and... there is no evidence that ATM ever went to jail!!.. in fact... the case against him was DROPPED... couldn't find him in the Idaho Department of Corrections site... could find no evidence of him on the Washington State department of corrections site... or in the federal prisoner locator... looks like it was ALL A LIE!!

https://www.idcourts.us/repository/caseHistory.do?roaDetail=yes&schema=CLEARWATER&county=Clearwater&partySeq=28739&displayName=Haugen%2C+Timothy+m+%28+for+Haugen%2C+Timothy+M%29

sorry BinkStink... .aka... Kimberly Anne Stewart... there is no record of you ever getting a restraining order against Timothy M. Haugen!!!! the court case against ATM aka Timothy M. Haugen was DISMISSED... there is no evidence to suggest that ATM went to 'prison'... not in the state of Idaho!!. and there is no record of a restraining order ever being issued to YOU... or anyone else...

State of Idaho vs. Timothy M Haugen
No hearings scheduled
Case: CR-2007-0000652
Magistrate Judge: Randall W. Robinson
Amount due: $0.00
Closed
Charges:
Violation Date
Charge
Citation
Disposition

06/15/2007
I37-2732(C)(1) Controlled Substance-possession Of Arresting Officer: Cordle, Guy, 2000
Finding: Dismissed By Prosecutor Disposition date: 06/28/2007 Fines/fees: $0.00
Register of actions:
Date

06/18/2007
New Case Filed - Felony

06/18/2007
Criminal Complaint

06/18/2007
Affidavit Of Probable Cause

06/18/2007
Order Determining Probable Cause After Arrest Without Warrant

06/18/2007
Hearing Scheduled (Arraignment 06/18/2007 01:00 PM)

06/18/2007
Statement of Defendant's Rights - Felony

06/18/2007
Hearing result for Arraignment held on 06/18/2007 01:00 PM: Arraignment / First Appearance

06/18/2007
Financial Statement And Order

06/18/2007
Defendant: Haugen, Timothy M Appearance John R Hathaway

06/18/2007
Hearing Scheduled (Preliminary 06/29/2007 11:00 AM)

06/18/2007
Order Of Commitment Pending Posting Of Bail

06/19/2007
Request For Discovery

06/28/2007
State's Discovery

06/28/2007
Motion To Dismiss

06/28/2007
Motion Granted

06/28/2007
Court Minutes

06/28/2007
Dismissed by Motion of the Prosecutor with hearing (I37-2732(C)(1) Controlled Substance-possession Of)

06/28/2007
Hearing result for Preliminary held on 06/29/2007 11:00 AM: Hearing Vacated

06/29/2007
Order Of Release From Custody

07/17/2007
Subpoena Returned

07/17/2007
Subpoena Returned

07/17/2007
Subpoena Returned

07/17/2007
Subpoena Returned

and as for the cabin and 20 acres...

1030 Hjalmar Johnson Road, Weippe, Idaho has only ONE OWNER listed... Mr. Timothy M. Haugen... and it STILL belongs to him!!!

am i STALKING you, BinkStink??.. NO!!. did i RESEARCH you?... YES... because you attacked me and called ME a liar, when i had always suspected that YOU were one!!!! and it turns out i was CORRECT...

all the information i have about you is a matter of public record... and a LOT of it, you made public yourself!!!!

there's GOLD in them thar' google caches!!!!!

http://www.drirene.com/catbox/index.php?showtopic=47241

SOMEBODY, CALL BINKSTINK A WHAAAAMBULANCE, STAT!! SHE'S HAVING A WHINE ATTACK!!!

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Lundy [Bancroft], author of WHY DOES HE DO THAT?, points out that one of the abusers most commonly used tactics is to try to convince you and the people around you that you are crazy”.

Do not fall for their unprofessional diagnosis. Do not try to convince him or other people who are uneducated enough to believe him that they are incorrect. Let them believe what they want. Not only is this your opportunity to distinguish who your true support group is in order to protect yourself from his allies, it’s also a great source for personal strength and growth. And once you’ve overcome the feelings of betrayal, and learned the real reasons for this tactic of his, it can be a great source for endless humor by seeing what “the blind leading the blind” truly means. Stay away from these toxic people, they are harmful to your health, survival and well being.

In labeling you “crazy”, the abuser finds it easier to justify his abuse. If you have already left the abuser he can use a pop psychology term to justify to himself and others why you left him in order to avoid looking at the true reason for your departure, which was his abuse. If you find yourself questioning his lay-diagnosis, I urge you to seek the advice of a licensed psychotherapist who can tell you in a few sessions if any of his claims are valid or not.

http://tribes.tribe.net/abusivepartners/thread/c04b7ec6-2045-4554-bbd3-a3020b15ac61

this is soooooooo typical... the Narc psychopath BinkStink can do whatever she wants, say whatever she wants... twist the truth... make up LIES... attack anyone and everyone she chooses... but boy... out the bitch or call her on her abusiveness and it's a WHINE FESTIVAL...

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I didn't expect that my review of allabouthim.com would be greeted (by the moderator) with contrite self reflection, because I've not seen her display that quality when confronted before. (NO... she expected to cause trouble for other people... but has only caused more for herself ) I'm sad to see that she has frightened her membership with stories of an evil TROLL. (you ARE an evil Troll) Wrong. (right) I am glad that victims have a place to go, and have a leader they feel safe with. I mean only to point out that there was an extreme lack of empathy for the victimized membership, by the moderator. (of course this crazed psychotic bitch is just FULL TO BRIM WITH EMPATHY... as anyone who as seen her comments on Gone Quiet from Our Place can clearly see... hahahahahaha)

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I was not critisizing the membership in any way or shape or form. Just the moderator. (oh, so that makes it OK...to attack JUST ONE PERSON on a forum she is not even part of ) To bring the membership into a froth is inappropriate and again, shows a lack of empathy for them. It is drama they don't need to distract them from working on themselves. They have real issues with true trolls in their lives. (yeah: YOU)

Psychopaths are not run-of-the-mill trouble makers. (look... she wants to think she's SPEACIAL...she's not just the run of the mill troublemaker... she's a PSYCHOPATH... and a PROUD one) They are devastating. (bragging) They are not running amok in our society, they are few and far between. (again.....she's soooooooooo SPECIAL) Yes, there are those of us who DO run into a psychopath, or a narcissist, or a real con. Most of us run into their lesser brothers and sisters, still quite devastating. But it is not the end of the world. For MOST people. I think, as Lisa Scott states, you have a lot of choice in how you define yourself in the aftermath.

I concede that Ted Bundy's victims, the dead ones, have no choice to recreate themselves in the aftermath. The living ones do. If you live through your abusive relationship, you have choices. It is your personal right to choose to be destroyed forever by your encounter. I was confronted with this choice myself. My ex husband ATM burned through my entire retirement fund and the proceeds from my house sale in California (which was considerable, I sold in in 2005). (i'm going to address this in an expose' soon... WHAT BECAME OF THE 'RANCHO BINKSTINK'???... what became of the farm that was PURCHASED FROM THE PROCEEDS OF THE CONSIDERABLE proceeds from the sale of her house?... it seems to have just poof... disappeared!!!)

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I was financially destroyed, and have forever lost ground because of it. He sicced his dogs on my animals and injured or killed them. He shot a laying hen with a RIFLE at point blank range because he wanted roast chicken. It blew her to smithereens. I was screaming at him to stop. The neighbors called the cops because they thought I was being killed, what with the rifle shots and all. He threatened to kill me uncountable times. And even today people, family included, do not GET IT, they continue to ask why I put up with it and did not "leave sooner". I live every day in a world that I KNOW would think I was an idiot and deserved what I got for staying when I should have SEEN him for what he was.

Instead of accepting what others would (and do) define me as, I learned to accept and forgive myself at the knees of some veteran abuse survivors on Trubble's Catbox (they are all at Our Place) (sucking up... but it's not working... they won't have her) now. I saw that THEY redefined themselves and went on, perhaps limping a bit, to new and better lives. With and without new husbands/boyfriends/children/money/assets. And their hopefulness and strength in the face of adversity was REAL. Not a bunch of smoke and mirrors, or false hope. People in much worse situations than mine. And they were right. Here I am. Still limping, true. Who knows where I will go?I am still living with abuse in my life, I have to admit it.

Narcnarcwhosthere/Confederaterebel is posting the full name and phone numbers and email addresses of administrators, and the name of the hospital corporation I work for, and encouraging people to contact them (YES i AM!!) and SAY they THINK I am using hospital time to post my drivel. Asking people to lie, in case they aren't SURE I am at work. (NOPE... not what i said at all... and i'll POST IT AGAIN BELOW..)

Deliberate attempts to cause me embarrassment and undermine the one thing that keeps me afloat in this world. (You did this to YOURSELF BinkStink - you posted about people, forums and victims YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT - what did you expect??? Your Narc entitlement is showing!!!)

If that is how Barbara feels about her post as moderator, that my criticism was an attempt to undermine the one thing that keeps her afloat in this world, I apologize sincerely. (spare us all)

Just remember that it's not just about YOU. It's about the people who look up to you. Have some pity for their shattered selves. If you must go on and on about how "destroyed" YOU are, say also that you are speaking for yourself only. You've made your choice. Your membership may have not made theirs, yet, and it's only fair to admit that your choice is not the only one. Maybe it's the only one that made sense for YOU. But for the majority of people, it won't be their choice. The majority will want to rise above the abuse and go on to have satisfying lives. (newsflash for the clueless bitch - no one ever said they were talking about ANYONE BUT THEMSELVES... and accusing the moderator of having no empathy for the members??? its pure projection!!! BinkStink has no empathy for anyone but BinkStink... notice how she twists the whole thing back around to poor ole' HER... doesn't that make you frightened for her patients at her job???)

The narcissistically injured on the other hand, cannot rest until she has blotted out a vaguely experienced offender who dared to oppose her, to disagree with her, or to outshine her.

It can never find rest because it can never wipe out the evidence that has contradicted its conviction it is unique and perfect. This archaic rage goes on and on and on.

Group Helplessness and Rage -- Ernest S. Wolf, MD

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BOOOO HOOOOOO... Nurse Hatchet can stalk people... slander them and attack them on her nasty little psycho blog... but no one had better report her INSANITY... typical Narc/Psychopath ENTITLEMENT... hey Binky... here's a news flash (only news to you)... YOU'RE NUTS!!!!.. you creepy little journal, filled with your creepy little thoughts brings to mind several other WINGNUTS..i ncluding the COLUMBINE SHOOTERS... and .THE PITTSBURG GYM SHOOTER...

you need to take a rest BinkStink,.. a nice long rest... or one day you're turn up in an article like THIS ONE...

http://www.portlandtribune.com/news/story.php?story_id=118099520999281100

anyone who agrees with this, and would like to report the disturbing things BinkStink is posting on her psycho-blog... i do urge you to contact... PROVIDENCE MEDICAL CENTER in OLYMPIA WASHINGTON... 360-491-9480... ask to speak to an ADMINISTRATOR.. tell them you want to make a complaint about a nurse there... her name is Kim... she is an oncology RN... they will know exactly who you are talking about ... or... you can ask to speak to Mary Mertens, Manager Employee/Labor Relations mailto:Relationmary.martens@providence.org .. or you can contact Cynthia Binkerd at Cynthia.Binkerd@providence.org

tell them you're sick of her insane spews... her attacks on victims of domestic violence... her stalking forums she is not a member of, or welcome at, and that you believe she is doing it on THEIR TIME CLOCK. (because she has certainly done it in the past).. be sure and mention her creepy journal.. and if you email them... be sure and send a link to any posts you find OFFENSIVE or DISTURBING on her journal... MAYBE if she has to get a job at Jack in the Box or Walmart... the crazy bitch won't have time to STALK...

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SOMEONE is sure spending a great deal of time on this blog... if it's BinkStink, kudos on getting yourself a proxy server... verrrrrrrrrry creepy and psychoish... if it's NOT BinkStink... or if it's one of her proxies using a proxy... then you're also verrrrrrry creepy and psycho-ish... but please keep on reading... eventually when somone googles PROVIDENCE MEDICAL CENTERS... ol BinkStink here will pop up like a nasty cold sore!!!!

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BINKSTINK... YOUR PSYCHOPATHY IS SHOWING!

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"Innocence seldom utters outraged shrieks. Guilt does. Innocence is a mighty shield, and the man or woman covered by it, is much more likely to answer calmly: 'My life is blameless. Look into it, if you like, for you will find nothing.'
-Whittaker Chambers

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my life is an open book... i don't hide who i am... where i am... or what i believe... that's BinkStink's number one stock in trade... her and all other Psychopaths.

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the evidence is overwhelming... BinkStink is not just a garden variety toxic weed commonly known as a NARCISSIST... BinkStink is a more rare and even more TOXIC WEED... a PSYCHOPATH... with some very SCHIZOPHRENIC overtones...

BinkStink will not just GO AWAY... because she wants to completely dominate and control her current victim of choice... which in this case is me... she refuses to go away...

outing the NASTY BITCH only enraged her further... and now she has launched into another round of her attacks followed by lies... followed by taking the ever popular psychopath 'I'm the victim here' stance... any of us here who has known a Narc or a PSYCHOPATH knows this game well...

first the nasty little psychotic cockroach scurried out of the hole she has been hiding in since being OUTED.... and posted a schizophasic attack on me... sending me 'condolences' on someone she apparently in her Schizophrenic mind has come to believe is my father!.. some guy who died in prison in 2006... who was a member of the KKK...

she then launches into another SCHIZOPHRENIC/SCHIZOPHASIC spew about me SELLING 'heirlooms' from this person... her insanity and delusions have become quite obvious... to everyone except her...

she, in her Psychopathic rage, has somehow failed to notice the date of this article she dug up... and BinkStink says that this person is ABOUT TO BE buried in a pauper's grave if i don't claim his body...

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Hey Mary!!!

bink_think
February 3rd, 14:29
Check it out, I think I found yer Pa! http://www.picayuneitem.com/local/local_story_311142508.html
I realize it will be more emotionally difficult than ever to sell your . . . erm, heirlooms to the rich, kinky and bored collectors of such. . . memorabilia. Then again, it's possible you could exploit your relationship for a higher bid. Anyway, condolences :)

now.. .as with all Narcissists and Psychopaths... her attacks on me are JUSTIFIED... but if i defend myself, then of course i am the attacker, in her disordered mind...

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like all Narcissists and PSYCHOPATHS... BinkStink is a pathological liar... and will tell any sort of lie, tweak time, space and the truth - to cover her own psychotic ass... Narcs and Psychopaths will often tell ridiculous transparent lies... like the ones below:

I DO read Mary's blog. I check it about every other day. From home. Our "net nanny" at work does not allow us to access Facebook or MySpace or Blogger. It's tremendously ANNOYING because I know my sunflowers are ready to be harvested and must hope they do not shrivel by the time I get home.

BinkStink's personal IP address... 76.104.243.242, through COMCAST CABLE was banned from this blog on January 19th, 2010... since that time she has been EXCLUSIVELY using the computers of PROVIDENCE MEDICAL CENTER... so if she is checking my blog from 'home'.... we can only hope that HOME is a locked mental ward at PROVIDENCE MEDICAL CENTER... and that she keeps making repeated escapes from her CAGE to run to a computer to read my blog... because the IP logger does not lie... even though BinkStink does nothing but... so here it is again... a log of her most RECENT USE of the computers belonging to PROVIDENCE MEDICAL CENTERS...

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Binkstink is obsessed with several of the posts on my other blog blog... including the one she last viewed... NARCISSISTS ARE OBESSESED WITH THEIR IMAGE... yes, they certainly ARE... to the point of telling any lame lie they can come up with to attempt to cover up their abuse of others...

of course... while accusing me of whatever pops into her crazy head... BinkStink... like ALL Narcs and PSYCHOPATHS... knows no fear... she must believe her own lies... that she is not using the computers at her place of employment... when something can be PROVEN beyond a doubt... but when someone continues to refuse to acknowledge or believe what has been proven... then they are considered to be DELUSIONAL.... boy... that's a big surprise... BinkStink is delusional!!!!

“A favored technique is to debilitate your identity by levelling false accusations and/or questioning your honesty, fidelity, trustworthiness, your “true” motivations, your “real” character, your sanity and judgment. They are absolutely the world’s best manipulators, liars, and fabricators of truth. They do so convincingly because they believe their own lies. After all their life is nothing but a lie, a sham, how can we possibly assume they know anything different.” -The Mask of Sanity/ H. Cleckley

BinkStink is a Psychopath... a noxious, toxic little pile of psychopathic SHIT... who has been unmasked REPEATEDLY... she was unmasked by Dr. Irene Matiatos (who CERTAINLY should know one when she smells one) and banned from Trubbles Catbox (which she also continues to 'read' ie STALK... to the point of copying posts and answering them on her own blog... for lack of anywhere else to spew... as if anyone is truly interested in her opinion!)

banned along with her stalker whack job cohort GOONGODDESS... and she was unmasked again here... along with her stalker whack job cohort GOONGODDESS...

the mask if off BinkStink... you can spin it... you can lie... you can spew... but the fact is... YOUR MASK IS OFF... and you won't be able to fool those who now KNOW... no matter how hard you try....

you're a sick twisted piece of shit, BinkStink... YOU truly are a lonely spurned puddle of fermenting drivel... one that people who have seen you for what you really are will from now on either walk through then wipe their shoes... or step around with disgust and revulsion...

the mask is off... and what is underneath is HATEFUL... AND NASTY... AND LOATHSOME... AND UGLY... and we can all see it... CLEARLY